Finding Love in a Gay Men’s World: It Starts with Self.

A Metaphysical Retreat for Gay Men

March 7 - 9, 2025

Co-Facilitated by: 

Elias Patras

Jeremy McDonald

Are you ready to embrace the deepest form of love—self-love?

Join us for an unforgettable weekend retreat designed for gay men to discover authentic connection and love, starting from within. At this sacred gathering, you’ll experience:

- Small Group, Large Group, and One-on-One Activities for personalized growth and sharing.

- Journaling -Sessions to reflect and honor your inner voice.

- Two Fire Ceremonies to release old patterns and ignite new intentions.

- Guided Meditation with Movement (Trance Dance) for emotional release and self-expression.

- Experiential Exercises to connect deeply with yourself and others.

Finding the Authentic You

Transformation Into a New You

Learning to Love Yourself

Frequently Asked Questions

What location is the retreat at?

Terramuse Wellness Sanctuary is located in Mechanicsville, Iowa, about 35 minutes from Cedar Rapids Airport (CID).

What's included in retreat?

***Lodging, meals, and the full workshop experience ***

- Optional stay: Arrive Thursday after 4 PM or stay until Monday at 9 AM for $40

per extra night

- Additional meals: $50 per day during your extended stay

What to Expect....

The retreat emphasizes vulnerability, respect, and being heard—a chance to reconnect with your heart while building bonds with others. We ask participants to refrain from recreational drugs or alcohol to maintain the sacred space we create together.

We also encourage everyone to wait 30 days after the retreat before dating someone you meet here. This pause allows friendships and personal growth to take root and settle.

Bonus Experiences

Meet and Greet via Zoom: Connect with fellow participants and facilitators two weeks before the retreat

Retreat Reunion on Zoom: Reflect on your journey and stay connected one month after the retreat

We invite you to come as you are, connect with your heart, and discover love within

yourself. Together, let’s honor our stories and open ourselves to transformation.

March 7 - 9, 2024